Currently, the ‘Forgot your password?’ link in openlab-theme doesn’t use the proper WordPress function to be filtered in the normal way. We’ll address this in a future release. https://github.com/cuny-academic-commons/commons-in-a-box/issues/181
For the time being, the following snippet, in bp-custom.php, an mu-plugin, or a theme functions.php file, should work:
add_filter(
'site_url',
function( $url, $path ) {
if ( 'wp-login.php?action=lostpassword' === $path ) {
$path = 'wp-login.php?action=reset-password';
}
return $path;
},
10,
2
);